Solitude.

 You know what? Alone is better!

Being alone is better. Why? Because you don’t have to hurt anyone. You don’t have to feel bad. You don’t have to argue or you don’t even have to look at others. You have the freedom to be yourself without having to be like anyone. Have you ever got hurt because someone said something rude to you?  If so, what did you do to forget that? At some point, I found my life meaningful and beautiful but sometimes I just felt the opposite of it. Try to be with someone whoever the person is, you can find yourself gossiping about others or sharing your difficulties or whatever you are going through in life which you don’t have to do anything when you are alone. This is the time where you can just relax and focus on your breath and work on your own emotions. Many of our problems in our lives don't always need to be solved. Sometimes the best solution for it is in calming our minds and embracing it. you may have the tendency to talk back to the person who speaks to you with hurtful things but doing this  will just aggravate the problem. Hence, it is best to retreat in solitary to heal yourself.     

 To be honest, I’m not that kinda person who enjoys being solitary or relaxing myself to be calm when somebody criticizes me or defames me. Now that I have realized that greatest strength is not in winning quarrels and fights with others rather in forgiving and forgetting it. we will not always be treated by the people the way we want them to. But we have the choice to treat them better. It is always best to change ourselves first and the situation around us will gradually improve.    

I am 23 years old and now that I have grown this old, I have  never realized how much a harsh word will hurt others. The hurtful words which are spoken can still hurt a person after a decade. Words have both the power to heal and to hurt. I just realized that because I saw myself getting hurt when someone unknowingly said something hurtful to me. For that matter I want to manage my anger through meditation and reflection by being alone.  

I hope whoever reads it, would find this piece of writing helpful. I apologize for not being able to write well, since this is my first time writing  in a blog. I hope with time I will improve.

P.s - explore new thing everyday because I got devastated when every tutor told us to create a blog and an e- portfolio. So, it is never too late to try now.