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Tomorrow, it is

 Time goes on as if it has a deadline to meet. It goes on like a perfect plan moving so smoothly. I know life is also moving forward with time but I feel like I am stuck at a point in my life. At a point where I am in a dilemma which route to take. Which color to choose and which work to complete first. In the midst of so much pending works, I chose procrastination. I have been telling myself, from tomorrow for the longest time.  There is work from my workplace, the work of my family and work of my own and for many reasons, it is draining me so much. Sometimes, I feel like there is time, sometimes, I feel like I am running out of time and many a time I am just drained.  I am trying to figure everything out bit by bit but somewhere in between, I really question my worth. Am I really worthy of everything life is throwing at  me? I don't know what God has planned for me but at this point, I really need a push to move with the flow because there is no moving with the flo...
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I Wish I Had Taken Better Care of My Skin

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The Anxious Generation book review: 3 key takeaways for parents struggling with screen time.

What I Learned from The Anxious Generation We live in a world where screens are integrated into every corner of our daily lives. As parents and caregivers, we often hand over a phone or turn on the television just to get a few quiet moments to clean the house, cook, or get ready for work. When I first bought The Anxious Generation by Jonathan Haidt, I expected to learn something meaningful, but I never imagined how deeply it would force me to reflect on my own choices as a Gen Z mother. Reading this book page by page became a massive eye-opener regarding my toddler's habits, my family's dependency on technology, and even my own smartphone usage. Why Screen Time is a Growing Challenge for Modern Parents Limiting screen time feels like an uphill battle. Handing over a tablet or opening YouTube has become a normal part of modern childhood because it keeps children occupied when adults are busy with work or household responsibilities. However, the contrast between today's digit...

Important Life Lessons Everyone Should Learn About Happiness and Peace

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Things I Learned After Becoming a Mother

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Why gratitude matter and how it can change our life.

  Things I am grateful for in life I am grateful for the beautiful motherhood that my son gave me. He always smiles at me and he understands me more than anyone would ever do. He gave me the reason I should be at my better version and the reason I should do the best. The energy he gives me and the motivation I see in my son make my life a lot better. I am grateful that I have him as my son and I will try my every best to give him the best life he deserves.  As a working mom, things would have been so difficult without the help of my mother. Taking the role of baby sitter to take care of my son. I am forever grateful for her for giving me this life and now I am even more grateful for her for taking care of my son.  Though it aches my heart for not being able to do anything grand for her. She stood beside me for any decision I make in my life, she was there cheering for every little success I have and she just feels happy to see me living, giving a whole lot of reasons that...

What it means to be consistent.

Consistency is the key. What we keep doing consistently will definitely bring the result we looked forward to. It rewards us with the goal accomplished and that is why being consistent feels way too difficult. Why? We make way too difficult and overwhelming plans, we try to do things beyond our means and when we reach exhaustion, we lose consistency. I am someone, who believes so much in consistency that I always tell myself that with consistency, I will get the result but the result I look forward to was never achieved because I lost my consistency to my lethargy, I lost my consistency to my mood swings, I lost my consistency to the thoughts of life’s uncertainty and I lost my consistency to enjoy.  I stay on diet for two days and then binge eating all the things I love. I do some workout for two days and when my body aches, I care for it so much that the workout is gone for weeks. I read two days in a row and when there is some trailer of a drama then I devote all my time into fi...