Protect your peace, talk less than necessary

 Committing myself to talk what is necessary, not my impulsive thoughts.

 

I don't want to be disappointed JUST because I TALKED. Something that life constantly teaches me is to be careful with what I share with others. What we share now is always used as a weapon by others to sabotage us in the end and by then there is nothing we can do. We have to surrender because we gave the evidence ourself that defending will be too late. 

The most important part is that, what we share as something positive might be understood as something negative because we are all different from  each other and everyone has their own views of us. Just like we don't mean the same to everyone, our opinions, our suggestions or our ideas don't mean the same to everyone. Some might think its good, some think its bad but some might take it to the best but many will hear what they want to hear and interpret or articulate in their own way. 

Sometimes, the very best thing in life is to prove with action, by being the best ourselves, by showing in implementation how it works, rather than babbling to the empty air. People seem intrigued, people seem interested but the conclusion everyone draws in what they think is right an how they want to perceive us. 

Sometimes, we put our heart and soul into doing something good, not for own self but for the benefits of all other around but the people around us will considered it too insignificant and if even they want to use the idea later when they believe that it is indeed feasible, they will take the credit by twisting a small bit of it. 

When we receive that too often from others, it doesn't just teach us to be mindful of talking, it also tells us to be mindful of listening. Imagine you are the significant one and listening to some ideas which is too excellent to be true. Instead of understanding how you want it to be understood, if you rather articulate just how the other party conveys you and respect that, the change will happen. The change where people settle for mediocrity could become one where everyone strives for excellence. The change that good ideas and opinions are shared than being suppressed. The change that everyone will shine together like.

My mother always tell me not to be the mushroom which dies with the branch, but rather be flower which blooms with the ground. I am not really into being the leader that lead many people, being have control over many people or anything like that. I just want to be the leader of my own, where I don't need to be told to do the basic moralities. Where I don't need supervision to do something good for others and where I don't need constant follow ups to get the work done. I wanted to lead my own, doing the things which are right and avoiding the ones which are bad. 

So, the point at the end is, when you are priceless to one, you are just a nuisance to another, your value matters where you choose to be. To be able to live the life worthy, we need to know how to talk, effectively, thoughtfully and influentially  but we do not speak all the time nor we explain ourselves everywhere.

I think life teaches us to talk only when it is really necessary and when the other party is really soliciting. 

Sharing our thoughts sometimes leads to disappointment but silence protects us.